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After years of suffering emotional, verbal and physical violence David* and his daughters are bravely making a fresh start.
Over nearly two decades of marriage, David’s wife used controlling tactics to isolate and manipulate him and their two teenage daughters, Evelyn and Phoebe.
This included verbal abuse and escalating threats and violence. The result was that the East Gippsland family were isolated and in constant fear. Additionally, their home and household furniture were substantially damaged after several violent incidents.
Unfortunately, the unpredictable and irrational behaviours of David’s wife escalated over several years. They were also exacerbated by a problem with substance abuse.
Despite the violent behaviours of his wife David stayed in his marriage because he wanted to provide stability for Evelyn and Phoebe. He was also fearful of the consequences for himself and his two daughters if he did leave the relationship.
Events reached a terrifying climax when a male friend acting on behalf of his wife trespassed on the property when Phoebe and Evelyn were home alone. He threatened the terrified young teenagers and murdered their beloved pets in front of their eyes.
David’s wife left the home and David was awarded custody of Phoebe and Evelyn. Together with Gayle, his Windermere worker, David developed and implemented a safety plan for himself and his daughters. This included the installation of safety cameras on the property.
Windermere also organised a grant for the family so they could make repairs to their home and replace damaged furniture and household appliances. Their home was also repainted so they could make a ‘fresh start’ without visible reminders of the trauma they had experienced.
Additionally, Windermere provided assistance to support David, Phoebe and Evelyn through an ongoing court process, which has included making painful victim impact statements.
David, Evelyn and Phoebe, are all deeply traumatised and are receiving ongoing counselling.
Although they still face many challenges the family is now free to be safe and rebuild their lives.
*Details have been changed to protect privacy
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